I learned a couple more words in different languages. I might continue. Might not.
I think it was in an old movie i was watching that they described a woman as "refined". As in, "you could tell she was a proper lady. Real refined." I am not refined. I am not low class but i could be more refined. I may work on that. Refined. Seems better than Lady. Or less constrained. I've been refered to as a real Lady. Hmm. A Lady seems more concerned with others than with herself? I dunno.
Any resolutions for you?