Second, - OMG apparently LJ has this feature where it will tell you when someone has responded to a post you've made in someone ELSE's journal? and I never see this feature. so huge OMG SORRY to everyone I haven't responded to because I figured everyone had moved on. Eeeep!
DamnLJ for hiding this thing. You'd think it would be somewhere easier to access than the front page when you LOG_IN. I don't log in every frieaking time! That's DUMB.